Thursday, December 17, 2009

The Night They Burned The Mountain


I recently read a book that changed the way I viewed history. The title of this post is it's title and it was written by a man named Dr. Thomas Dooley, M.D. The book was a typical memoir of a young idealistic doctor who felt he could do more with his life. He traveled to a remote series of villages in S.E. Asia and helped eradicate horrible diseases and performed (rather sub-standard) massive surgeries that changed and saved lives. He then described with horror a force that was killing imprisoning and maiming countless innocent people it was the Viet Cong. The thing that was intriguing about this book was that this man developed a tumor and died in early 1961 just as the war really began. He spent those early war years in Asia and he was caught up in his work and never knew of the upheaval at home. The way that he described the region fascinated me.

I have always been taught that we arrived in Vietnam and encouraged terrorist activities by our presence, and killed a lot of innocent people without doing any real good, all for some nebulous cause to "stop the spread of communism." Then we got a conscience and cut our losses and pulled out.

This book taught me that the notorious booby traps and land mines that plagued our soldiers there, were not there for us. The way the Viet Cong operated (long before we got there) was that they would set up a perimeter around a city and booby trap to maintain that perimeter. They would then infiltrate the city separate the genders, and basically created the equivalent of a concentration camp within. I wont go into the tortures and maiming enacted there. Lets just say that they were a real terrorist group and not just people suspected of "trying to spread communism."

I have always assumed that we lived in a country that prized the truth. I have come to the conclusion that the reason such a skewed view of this war is so common is that those same college students who opposed the war then, still oppose it and now. They have mailable clay in their hands and are teaching the version of history they wish to be told.

That being said, I suppose that there is some truth that in light of all of these facts that there were still plenty of moral/economical/ and logical reasons we should have stayed away. What business are the politics and even the terrorism in other parts of the world that could never touch us directly, of ours? I don't know.

However, I can't help but feel that it must be hard for those in positions of power to see atrocities, and not want to help. The media of the time had a lot to say on behalf of the poor protesters who kept being fire hosed and arrested, then released the next day etc... but for me all of that paled in comparison with the people I learned about who had miraculously survived one of the camps I described earlier.

I suppose it is clear where I am going with this... don't worry I don't expect anyone to agree, I have just been thinking again...

when looking at the landscape of the world the leaders of our country are given a sadistic choice. Who to save. I think it can safely be said that ever since at least WWII our country's roll has been to liberate and police the world. It is hard to hear of all of the collapsing governments, the military huntas, and the genocide all over the world, to say nothing of the starvation. So who if anyone do we help?

well... is it a political issue? is it moral? is it economical? or are all of those things important?

the way I see it Iraq and Afghanistan are the logical choice if we are going to help someone. (which apparently we do want to do) The politically correct choice is Africa. I don't know which country, but I can't help but feel it would be more popular to be somewhere on that continent. The problem with Africa is, that it is a huge quagmire. Africa is way less advanced and way less dangerous to the rest of the world than to itself, therefore it is the proverbial fighting spears with guns. so they are left to themselves (mostly) besides I think hatred of the west is less common there than other regions.

Being the world power we pick the target that effects us (and hopefully the world) the most. Unlike the Viet Cong, the Islamic extremists in Afghanistan have proven multiple times that they are a threat to us and many other western nations. They have access to some nasty technology, and they have no qualms about using it against everyone(even their own families). The same is true of Iraq. Iraq is the more controversial of the wars, but the war aside, I think it would be pretty hard to find a non-terrorist who misses Saddam Hussein.

What is the point of all of this? well.. I can't help but feel that the criticism in this country has been misplaced. There is definitely a controversy, but I think once again the media and the public are skewing reality. I have family and Friends in the wars currently, and they come back with a whole different story about what is really going on. I have heard a lot of stories of people who have been thanked personally for trying to help. I had a friend who told me that every day when his group would go out to run at 4:00 in the morning they were followed by an entourage of children who just wanted to be with them. so, even though plenty of people resent our presence, plenty of people are grateful.

let's just remember that not everyone can go to the store, Church, and school without danger. and be grateful for a country that has not been run by terrorists in any living memory.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Andy's awesome boss and his awesome wife.

This Christmas I am going to have a hard time feeling ungrateful. Last week Andy's research group, and their significant others had a Christmas party. Andy's boss asked me to cook. I offered to make a range of yummy soups, and breads, but Andy's boss suggested I just make chili, and I agreed. then he gave me a check for 100$ I told him that I really needed more like 30$ for chili and bread since I had half of the ingredients around the house, he said "Merry Christmas" and insisted that he meant to spend that much on it anyway.

When the party came we had a white elephant exchange, and the girls (who are the only kids in the group right now.) would not be left out she had bought presents for them, and mixed them into the others, and had told us which one was for each kid. they were so exited to open presents. Clearly this women has kids. she bought presents both of them love. she spent all evening talking to, and playing with them and they were so happy being part of things. I tried to thank her and she dismissed it insisting that she loves shopping for kids.

This next semester Andy was scheduled to be reduced in his teaching, which would mean a pay cut. Dr. Que (his boss) intervened and saw to it that he was given the full appointment. Andy could not have done that himself. It is nice that people in the world are so aware of us. I am so grateful that Andy is respected, and that there is someone who is sympathetic to our needs.

Thanks to them even if they don't think it is any trouble.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Free Christmas music

yay for Christmas music!!!
here are some freebies I have run across:


Amazon is giving away a free song every day until Christmas.

Avoid:Dec:4,6, and 9 is rather annoying this is (so far) the least awesome freebie.


Itunes is offering a free Christmas Album!!! the songs are eclectic, but more my taste than the amazon ones. I like all of them I have lisened to so far.

finally, My brother-in-law is part of a band that I enjoy. they are classified as "indie pop" but I have always thought they sounded like a blend between the Beech Boys and REM with more instruments. they have been putting out seasonal EP's all year. here is where you can listen to their winter songs. and if you want to download "away in a Manger" or any of the other covers from the other seasons they are free here just look for the band name "the very most" and the instructions are on the page to download. I am rather partial to the summer song too.

Merry Christmas everyone!

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

getting into the Christmas spirit

This Christmas I decided to make some things... Esther has always been pretty girly in an adventurous kind of way. she never wears anything but dresses. she loves dress up. so instead of buying the overpriced flimsy versions they have at stores I decided to make my own princess dresses. I already had a simple dress pattern to use.

I had a coupon for a local thrift store and decided to see what they had for fabric it was a long shot, but why not? to make a long story short I found everything I needed (accept the floofy fabric on the Cinderella dress)including zippers, and Velcro, and elastic for the necklace, and hair things. (I already had the ribbon) the total was about 8$ and I now have enough fabric to make 3-5 more dresses.

when I got to the checkout the cashier informed me that the promotion that day prevented me from using my coupon. I tried to talk them into it. and then the person in the line next to me handed me a 20$ bill and said "I think you dropped this." I was grateful (and a little embarrassed to have caused a scene) but I have to say that wherever I go people tend to take care of me. thanks generous lady at the thrift store for making me remember what Christmas is all about, and for buying Esther's Christmas.


Snow white


Cinderella



and finally our "land of the rising sun" (an attempt at peppermint stripes without a pattern) tree skirt. it is hard to see here, but there is a red circle in the center. Andy actually cut, and sewed this one. he even helped me quilt it. (I took too long to get around to it for him) and I just did the binding. funny guy. I think it is pretty nice, and hey, the Japanese are our allies now right?

let's all try to pass the goodness along.

Merry Christmas everyone!!

Saturday, December 5, 2009

what Dadies are for.




video

"I do it self"

"I do it self" is a popular catch phrase at our house. Leah has declared her Independence and now I am only useful when she wants me. dressing yourself is not without it's hazards.

the classic dress upside down predicament....



sometimes clothes are too much trouble, so she gives up. I then have to wrestle her, and that usually ends up with me dressing her at lest 3-4 times before it sticks.


and finally the confusion when four limbs are involved in one article of clothing. she is mad because I made her leave it that way for the picture. I guess it hurt her pride.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Thanks....


I am taking up the challenge from my friend Melinda to list 100 things I am thankful for:
1. parents with a great relationship (trust me I see how special it is now)
2. A fantastic mother-in-law
3. fancy cheese (seriously I love it)
4. cookie dough I cream
5. a smart husband
6. pretty, and more importantly healthy kids.
7. not having weight problems
8. a treatment for my bladder!!!!!!!!! (! to the 10Th)
9. modern medicine
10. miracles when no. 9 is not enough
11. lotion
12. chapstick
13. meat
14. music
15. being able to sing
16. playing the viola (thanks mom)
17. Orchestra (it keeps me sane)
18. BOOKS!!!
19. a husband who likes good music.
20. my totally awesome family (does that count as like 50?)
21. easy pregnancies
22. America (I love it)
23. Jesus
24. the restoration
25. the scriptures (especially the BOM)
26. all of the cool ethnic restaurants/markets here I will miss them when we leave.
27. finally understanding what I really have (I am getting there anyway)
28. sesame street
29. living in a country that allows non-watered down history.
30. inspiring people
31. friends
32. that lady who picked me up when I was walking to a Dr. appt. when we first moved here and I missed the bus transfer. ( I had Esther who would not walk any more ,it started to rain, and I was 9 mos pregnant.) thank you wherever you are.
33. the people who we ran into in South Dakota when we moved that let us stay in their home eat with them, and gave us some food for the road. that was a huge blessing.
34. people who are easy to trust
35. sleep
36. being loved.
37. love in general
38. google
39. funny things my kids do/say
40. good doctors
41. movies
42. pizza
43. telephones
44. kids books
45. prophets
46. my lovely neighbor who gives us things we need all the time.
47. getting all the clothes we need for the kids (at least for now) hand-me-down. If we keep having girls we are set for life.
48. college. it was fun, even with it's time wasting element.
49. the prospect of a real income someday... I am not ambitious, I just want a little extra.
50. cute babies
51. my own place. I was done sharing a washer/dryer
52. a husband who gives good gifts.
53. books on tape
54. AC (especially when pregnant)
55. heaters
56. the Library!!! (seriously we would be soooo poor without it)
57. free family days, and discounts.
58. recipes (they make me look good)
59. hair bows, they make my girls so cute!!
60. coupons
61. family history
62. a husband who does #61 and finds names for us to bring to the temple.
63. awesome Charities (not all are awesome)
64. Christmas music
65. awesome musicians
66. the priesthood
67. when projects work out.
68. sunshine
69. hiking
70. cross country skiing
71. smart people
72. the constitution
73. my piano lamp.
74. kids simple joys
75. flowers
76. nature in general
77. not paying for parking
78. imaginary friends
79. yoga
80. cars
81. strollers
82. baby carries
83. the children's songbook
84. blankets
85. hot chocolate
86. pretty things
87. perfume
88. lakes
89. crayons
90. veterans
91. lace
92. thrift stores
93. Mikes discount (it is a store that gets the week old produce, and odds and ends from the grocery stores. we would starve without it).
94. the butcher shop (it is called Ready meats for you twin city-ites) mmmm steak
96. baby fuzz I love it.
97. institute
98. horseradish
99. documentaries
100. good storytellers.